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Three BoysSeattle, WA –- Two of my boys were here in Seattle when I came home from San Francisco. Chris from Vancouver and my local boy Blueeyes have been getting along really well. The two of them seem to be bonding on a pretty deep level. Chris has always been rather quiet and reserved. I've been delighted to see how quickly he has opened up and become attached to his new little brother. Blueeyes seems to be reveling in the prospects of joining the family. I think on one level he's found something that he didn't realize he was looking for in his relationship with me. Becoming part of something even larger than that and finding relationships with Chris and Derek as well, I'm sure has come as a pleasant surprise even if it does mean coming to grips with concepts like polyamory and a new 'family dynamic.'

Side Bar: Since the initial period of consideration has passed, I extended the offer of my collar to Blueeyes for another three months and he accepted. We should have a fairly good understanding of how things should progress at the end of this extension.

It has been truly wonderful to witness the camaraderie that has developed among the boys. Even though Derek hasn't met either Chris or Blueeyes in person yet, the sense of 'famiglia' is still present thanks to things like video conferencing and the deep respect both the younger boys feel toward their big brother. I can't wait until the end of the month when I'll have all three boys with me for the Washington State Leather Pride weekend.